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“The 7th Commandment:

You Shall Not Commit Adultery” (Parts 1-2)

Deuteronomy 5:18 & 1 Peter 3:1-7

March 7th and 14th, 2010 Pastor Marcus J. Serven

Covenant Family Church (RPCGA)

Both Christians and non-Christians alike would readily admit that the family is under attack in the world in which we currently live. Academics of a more liberal persuasion are urgently trying to redefine the family, primarily so that it can be used as a tool for rapid social change. The problem with this effort to redefine the family is that God is the one who has set the pattern and the boundaries for marriage and the family. When those divinely determined protections are cast aside—like so much garbage—then God brings judgment upon the individuals and cultures that forsake his ways. The consequences of sin within the family are terrible to behold, and many in this fallen world have experienced firsthand the horrors of familial disintegration. But, there is a better way! The Lord not only has established a divine pattern for marriage and the family, but he also gives covenantal boundaries and instruction on how to enjoy a blessed marriage and family. Take hope!

The Main Point of this Sermon:

“Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands… Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way…” 1 Peter 3:1, 7

1. God’s Pattern for Marriage

A Divine Pattern is established…

§ Genesis 2:18-25

§ Matthew 19:5-6

2. God’s Protection of Marriage

Covenantal Boundaries are set…

§ Exodus 20:14

§ Leviticus 20:10

§ Deuteronomy 5:18

§ Matthew 5:27-28

§ Hebrews 13:4

3. God’s Provision in Marriage

Covenantal Instructions are given…

§ Proverb 5:15-23

§ Proverbs 6:20-35

§ Proverbs 7:1-27

§ Proverbs 12:4

§ Proverbs 18:22

§ Proverbs 19:4

§ Proverbs 31:23

§ Song of Solomon 1:2-4

§ Ecclesiastes 9:9

§ Ephesians 5:22-33

§ Colossians 3:18-19

§ 1 Peter 3:1-7

Bible Texts:

Deuteronomy 5:18 “And you shall not commit adultery.”

1 Peter 3:1-2, 7 “Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without at word by the conduct of their wives—when they see your respectful and pure conduct… Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.”

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Hebrews 10:19-25
February 28, 2010
Elder Bill Potter
Men’s Leadership Advance
Session #7 (CFC Worship Service, 1:00-3:00 PM)
Key Illustration: Richard Cameron and the Scottish Covenanters

Introduction:
In this sermon Elder Bill Potter addresses the battle of “Community”. Many men feel that they must manfully strive to overcome the challenges of life in complete isolation from one another; and so they purposefully disconnect themselves from all other Christians. God does not reward this attitude of independence and a life of stoic solitude. Instead, he has not only put us into our families, but he has also put us into the “Body of Christ”—Christ’s Church. We are part of a community of believers who are bound together, and we must stay connected with the brethren. The Lord strengthens his church as be “bear one another’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2) and as we meet together on a weekly basis for worship (Hebrews 10:24-25).

The Main Point of this Talk:
Hebrews 10:24-25 “And let us consider how to stir one another up to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”

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Pastor Charles Kuykendall

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“You Shall Not Murder”

Deuteronomy 5:17 February 7, 2010

Pastor Marcus J. Serven

Covenant Family Church (RPCGA)

Two weeks ago thousands of American citizens gathered together to recall a notorious decision by the United States Supreme Court regarding abortion on demand (Roe vs. Wade, January 23, 1973). It is hard for me to believe that we have endured this wicked judicial action for over thirty-seven years! For the Christian, then, what does the Bible say about taking another person’s life? It is clearly forbidden in God’s Law (cf. Exodus 20:13; Matthew 5:21-26). Yet, there are a small number of people who actually insist that any type of killing is offensive to God—cutting down a tree, squashing a bug, or slaying an animal. The Bible, however, teaches that there is a profound difference between human beings and all other living creatures. It teaches that only mankind is made in the image of God and possesses a spirit and soul (cf. Genesis 1:26-28, 9:6). Also, on the Judgment Day only mankind will receive eternal life or death (cf. Matthew 10:28, 25:46; 2 Corinthians 5:6-10). Therefore, human life is to be valued and protected. The astute and thorough Larger Catechism summarizes the Bible in this way,

Q. 136: What are the sins forbidden in the sixth commandment?

A.: The sins forbidden in the sixth commandment are, all taking away the life of ourselves, or of others, except in the case of public justice, lawful war, or necessary defense; the neglecting or withdrawing the lawful and necessary means of preservation of life; sinful anger, hatred, envy, desire of revenge; all excessive passions, distracting cares; immoderate use of meat, drink, labor, and recreations; provoking words, oppression, quarreling, striking, wounding, and whatsoever tends to the destruction of the life of any.

The Main Point of this Sermon:

“There are six things that the LORD hates…hands that shed innocent blood…” Proverbs 6:16-19

1. All Human Life Is Sacred, (Genesis 1:26-28)

2. All Human Life Is to Be Protected, (Genesis 9:6)

3. The Unlawful Taking of a Human Life Should Be Punished, (Exodus 21:12-17)

4. The Unintentional Taking of Human Life Is to Be Carefully Judged, (Deuteronomy 19:1-7)

5. Civil Government Has the Authority to Make War, (Romans 13:4 & Deuteronomy 20)

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“The 5th Commandment: Honor Your Father and Mother” (Part 1)

Deuteronomy 5:16 January 24, 2010

Pastor Marcus J. Serven

Covenant Family Church (RPCGA)

In the first table of the Law (Commandments 1-4) we learned about we should relate to our holy God. Now as we come to the second table of the Law (Commandments 5-10) we learn about how we should relate to one another. Specifically, how would the Lord have us treat our parents, and our superiors? The answer is clearly stated in the Bible (cf. Exod. 20:12; Deut. 5:16; Eph. 6:1-3). However, there are many other significant Bible passages as well—especially in the Psalms and the Proverbs. Moreover, the always wise and expansive Larger Catechism of the Westminster Confession of Faith summarizes our responsibility with these following citations:

Q. 124: Who are meant by father and mother in the fifth commandment?
A.: By father and mother, in the fifth commandment, are meant, not only natural parents, but all superiors in age and gifts; and especially such as, by God’s ordinance, are over us in place of authority, whether in family, Church, or commonwealth.

Q. 127: What is the honor that inferiors owe to their superiors?
A.: The honor which inferiors owe to their superiors is, all due reverence in heart, word, and behavior; prayer and thanksgiving for them; imitation of their virtues and graces; willing obedience to their lawful commands and counsels; due submission to their corrections; fidelity to, defense and maintenance of their persons and authority, according to their several ranks, and the nature of their places; bearing their infirmities, and covering them in love, that so they may be an honor to them and to their government.

Q. 128: What are the sins of inferiors against their superiors?
A.: The sins of inferiors against their superiors are, all neglect of the duties required toward them; envying at, contempt of, and rebellion against, their persons, and places, in their lawful counsels, commands, and corrections; cursing, mocking, and all such refractory and scandalous carriage, as proves a shame and dishonor to them and their government.

Wow! It would be difficult to add anything more to this list. Therefore, I would commend this summary to your careful study and application.

The Main Point of this Sermon:

“Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God commanded you.” Deuteronomy 5:16a

What are the benefits in keeping the 5th Commandment?

1. Godly Growth in Children, (Proverbs 6:20-23)

2. Godly Growth in Parents, (Eph. 6:4, Col. 3:21)

3. A Long Productive Life, (Exodus 20:12; Proverbs 22:6)

4. A Strong Family, (Psalm 127:3-5)

5. A Strong Church, (1 Tim. 3:4-5; Titus 1:6)

6. A Strong Nation, (Psalm 128:5-6)

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“Keeping the Sabbath Day Holy”

Isaiah 58:13-14 January 10, 2010

Pastor Marcus J. Serven

Covenant Family Church (RPCGA)

How do you and your family observe the Sabbath day week by week? The answer to this question throughout the history of Christ’s Church has generally evoked two opposite extremes—license and legalism. License, or doing whatever you wish, leads to an apathetic attitude regarding the 4th Commandment. Legalism, or the observing of special rules and regulations to justify yourself, leads to a rigorous and austere attitude regarding the Sabbath day. The middle point between these two opposite extremes is the position of Christian Liberty—the exercise of personal freedoms governed by the Law of God. Within this balanced viewpoint the Bible enumerates several aspects of Sabbath-keeping that give purpose and structure to this special day: Worship, Fellowship, Instruction, Necessity, Mercy, and Hospitality. Reflect upon these clear instructions found in the Westminster Confession of Faith,

This Sabbath is then kept holy unto the Lord, when men, after a due preparing of their hearts, and ordering of their common affairs beforehand, do not only observe a holy rest, all the day, from their own works, words, and thoughts about their worldly employments and recreations, but also are taken up, the whole time, in the public and private exercises of His worship, and in the duties of necessity and mercy. (WCF, Chapter 21: Of Religious Worship, and the Sabbath Day, Article Eight)

The Main Point of this Sermon:

“…if you honor it, not going your own ways, or seeking your own pleasure, or talking idly; then you shall take delight in the LORD…” Isaiah 58:13-14

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Deuteronomy 5:11 December 27, 2009

Pastor Marcus J. Serven

Covenant Family Church (RPCGA)

Bible Text:
“You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain, for the LORD will not hold him guiltless who takes his name in vain.” Deuteronomy 5:11

Introduction:
Many Christians are exposed to blasphemous remarks directed against our Lord on a daily basis. Whether it may be at work with the cursing of a co-worker, at a family celebration with an uncouth relative, or in your own home with a movie or book containing some profanity, people wrongly pepper their language with expletives taking the name of our Lord in vain and many Christians simply put-up with it. The sad reality is that even some Christians struggle in this area of sin, either by accepting a bad habit or from a lack of self-control. The key questions that surround the 3rd Commandment are these: (1) What is the meaning behind a name, and especially the Lord’s name? (2) What does the Bible mean when it forbids taking the Lord’s name in vain? (3) What is the result when the Lord’s name is taken in vain? The always instructive Westminster Confession of Faith gives us the following practical advice:

The name of God only is that by which men ought to swear, and therein it is to be used with all holy fear and reverence. Therefore, to swear vainly, or rashly, by that glorious and dreadful Name; or, to swear at all by any other thing, is sinful, and to be abhorred. Yet, as in matter of weight and moment, an oath is warranted by the Word of God, under the New Testament as well as under the Old; so a lawful oath, being imposed by lawful authority in such matters ought to be taken. (WCF, Chapter XXII Of Lawful Oaths and Vows, Art. 2)

The Main Point of this Sermon:

“Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” Colossians 4:6

1. What is the Meaning behind a Name, and Especially the Lord’s name?
2. What does the Bible Mean when it Forbids taking the Lord’s Name in Vain?
3. What is the Result when the Lord’s Name is taken in Vain?

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Deuteronomy 5:8-10
December 13, 2009
Pastor Marcus J. Serven
Covenant Family Church

It is not too difficult to think of the differing types of idols that have been built by religious people throughout the history of the world. We have seen pictures in various books, or perhaps we have even seen these idols in person. The Bible teaches that idolatry is a stumbling block for all human beings. Calvin emphatically stated “that man’s nature, so to speak, is a perpetual factory of idols.” (Institutes 1:11:8) Our very hearts, which by sin are opposed to God, seek to direct our worship towards someone other that the living, holy and eternal God. The Israelites battled the sin of idolatry all throughout their national history, and in the end they fell under God’s severe judgment because of it. Christians, likewise, must guard against idolatry or they and their posterity will suffer the awful consequences! Our Confession exhorts us in the following way,

I. The light of nature shows that there is a God, who has lordship and sovereignty over all, is good, and does good unto all, and is therefore to be feared, loved, praised, called upon, trusted in, and served, with all the heart, and with all the soul, and with all the might. But the acceptable way of worshiping the true God is instituted by Himself, and so limited by His own revealed will, that He may not be worshipped according to the imaginations and devices of men, or the suggestions of Satan, under any visible representation, or any other way not prescribed in the holy Scripture. (Westminster Confession of Faith, Chapter XXI “Of Religious Worship and the Sabbath Day“, Article 1)

The Main Point of this Sermon:

“God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” John 4:24

1. The Commandment, (vs. 8 )

4. The Reward, (vs. 10)

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“The 1st Commandment: No Other Gods”

Deuteronomy 5:5c-7 December 6, 2009

Pastor Marcus J. Serven

Covenant Family Church (RPCGA)

A few weeks ago we began our study of the Ten Commandments by setting forth some preliminary principles. One of those was to take note of the basic structure of the Law of God: (1) the Moral Law—which is Ten Commandments; (2) the Ceremonial Laws—which are a “type” or “shadow” pointing towards the Messiah; they are fulfilled through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ; and (3) the Civil Laws—which are the “case law” that applies the Ten Commandments to particular problems in Ancient Israel; the principles of the “case laws” are still to be lived out in society today (cf. Westminster Confession of Faith, Chapter 19 “Of the Law of God”). It is important to keep this basic structure in mind as we now come to the foremost of the commandments—the very 1st Commandment: “You shall have no other gods before me.” (Deut. 5:7).

The Main Point of this Sermon:

“You shall not go after other gods…for the LORD your God…is a jealous God…” Deuteronomy 6:14-15

1. Its Imposing Author, (vs. 5c)

2. Its Redemptive Nature, (vs. 6)

3. Its Exclusive Claim, (vs. 7)

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“A Summary of the Ten Commandments”

Mark 12:28-34 November 29, 2009

Pastor Marcus J. Serven

Covenant Family Church (RPCGA)

As chronicled in the Old Testament the Jewish people had lost sight of the fundamental relationship that they had with the Lord. They had been lured away from actually knowing the living God to only knowing about God. Instead of whole-heartedly giving themselves to God in loving submission, they had been deceived by false religious teachers into thinking that animal sacrifices excused them from their sin and made them righteous before God. They delighted in symbols, shadows, and types, rather than in God himself. In the midst of this dark period of history, however, God’s witness amongst the people was not totally extinguished. God had given them the Scriptures (the Law, the Prophets, and the Psalms), and he would also send his only begotten Son, the Lord Jesus Christ. The life and ministry of Jesus Christ gave new meaning to the greatest commandment, because here was a man who fulfilled the law by living it out perfectly (Mt. 5:17-20, 48).

The Main Point of this Text:

“Fear God and keep his commandments; for this is the whole duty of man.” Ecclesiastes 12:13

1. The Crucial Question, (vs. 28)

2. The Precise Answer, (vs. 29-31)

3. The Complimentary Response, (vs. 32-33)

4. The Stunning Declaration, (vs. 34)

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